- 2021 Posts
- Putting Your Right Shoe Forward
- Caregiver Specialists: Your Personal Guide Along Care Journey Path
- Executive Director: Gala Postponed until Spring 2022
- Executive Director: Face Coverings Required Starting August 2
- How to Get Started Refreshing Your Home
- Why it's Important to Have a Will
- COVID-19 Vaccine Information
- "Senior Scams" featured in Caregiving magazine
- Executive Director: What you can expect at NSSC starting Jun 14
- The Shop at the Center: The North Shore's Best Kept Secret
- Bridge Phase Update: A Message from the Executive Director
- Do’s and Don’ts as You Re-Enter Stores
- Easing Their Way Back: How NSSC members are slowly returning to pre-pandemic normalcy
- Medicare and COVID-19
- Easing Your Way Back to Normal
- Ways Caregivers Can Strengthen Connections & Reduce Loneliness
- A Change in Seasons Can Bring a Change in Moods
- New Act Provides Relief for Pandemic Weary Individuals
- Something to Think About
- Do I Hear an Echo? Smart Home Devices Can Make Life Safer and Easier
- "Senior Financial Abuse" as featured in Caregiving Magazine
- Annual Report - FY20
- 2021 New Year Message from Executive Director
- "The U-Shaped Happiness Curve"
- "Everyone Has a Story to Tell. Are You Ready to Share Your Life Story?"
+ 2020 Posts
- "Maximize Your Personal Connections and Minimize the Holiday Blues"
- "Resilience & Aging"
- Self-Care Tips for the Family Caregiver
- Sharing Gratitude During Thanksgiving from Our Executive Director
- NSSC Awarded Chicago Top Workplace
- 'Exercise’ Your Commitment to Stay Fit During Pandemic
- How the End of Daylight Saving Time Affects People with Dementia
- Lifelong Learning Virtual Experience: The Next Best Thing to Being at the Center
- Join us for Gala 2020: Unmasked
- Permission Granted: Time to Host the Perfectly Imperfect Wedding
- North Shore Senior Center Featured in Caregiving Magazine!
- What Does 'Medicare for All' Mean?
- Opening Day Slated for July 6!
- North Shore Senior Center Keeps Older Adults And Their Families Connected
- June 15 Update on Center Reopening
- An Open Letter from the Executive Director
- Initial Plans to Re-Open Center
- HSS & Sewa International Donate Masks to NSSC
- May 14 Update from the Executive Director
- The CARES Act Brings Many Changes for Individuals and Businesses
- May 7 Update from the Executive Director
- April 30 Message from the Executive Director
- Celebrating our Volunteers and Senior & Family Services: A Message from the Executive Director
- Celebrating Our Successes: A Message from the Executive Director
- Message from the Executive Director on HOW Programs
- Winnetka Talk: North Shore senior centers turn to technology to connect and entertain
- Message from the Executive Director
- An Update from our Executive Director & Free Online Classes
- A Note to the North Shore Senior Center Community
"The U-Shaped Happiness Curve"January 01, 2021
by Desiree Schippers
I’ve been surrounded by negative perceptions of aging throughout my entire life. From beauty advertisements urging me to rid myself of stubborn greys to movies portraying older adults as frail, helpless, and miserable, highly stigmatized attitudes toward aging are pervasive in American culture. From the way I would hear others speak, I grew up thinking there must be some sort of expiration date on happiness. Otherwise, why would people work so diligently to either prevent aging or pretend that it wasn’t happening?
It turns out, happiness, when measured by overall emotional well-being and stability, is a
U-shaped curve, according to the Brookings Institute and individual researchers such as David Blanchflower and Laura Carstensen. This means, for most people, we are happiest as children. Then, as we get older, happiness goes on a steady decline until it bottoms out around the age of 50. For most people this seems to make sense. Think about middle adulthood. As we barrel toward middle age, many people get divorced, discover they hate their careers, or start to feel more pressure to achieve something meaningful before they reach a certain age. You’re old enough to have significant financial stressors such as mortgages, student loans (possibly for both you and your children) and are balancing saving for retirement with day-to-day expenses. On top of this, many middle-aged people are part of a sandwich generation, caring for their own children as well as their aging parents. This is also the prime time for many chronic health conditions to begin emerging such as diabetes, arthritis, depression, and other regular aches and pains.
What happens after middle age is where things get interesting.
According to the ever-growing body of happiness research, people begin to feel much happier, past middle age. The direction of the curve flips completely and the line on the graph begins to ascend back to where it was in childhood, and, for most people who live past 90, the curve even surpasses the happiness levels of childhood!
But how could this be? Isn’t aging supposed to be one long march toward doom? Many researchers have tried to take a crack at this question and have come up with a common hypothesis: “As people age and time horizons grow shorter, people invest in what is most important, typically meaningful relationships, and derive increasingly greater satisfaction from these investments” (Laura Carstensen, as quoted in the Atlantic). It seems that as people reach middle age, they tend to shift their focus onto emotional wholeness and meaning, rather than social status and achievement. By being more introspective, using accumulated knowledge and experience to focus on emotional well-being, and strengthening relationships with the most important people in their lives, older adults tend to feel more content and satisfied with their lives.
No matter where we are on the curve, we can learn from our older peers: emotional well-being comes with experience, stability, and heavy investment into meaningful relationships. Armed with this knowledge, those who are headed for the bottom of the curve can find solace knowing that they are not alone and that most importantly, things will get better.